The first book that I read was Surrender, Dorothy by Meg Wolitzer, which came out in 1999. I was completely under whelmed by this novel. The funny thing is that when I checked on Amazon what year the novel was published, I noticed that it is now out-of-print and my first thought was, oh, I better hold on to this book! On second thought, however, why? I didn’t care that much for it.
Thirty year old Sarah is still in school, a graduate student studying Japanese history. She is beginning to think that she might always be in school. Her best friend is Adam, a gay playwright who has had his first major success. The story takes place as the month of August begins, the month when Sarah and Adam, along with Maddie and Peter always rent the same beach house. Maddie and Peter are married and have a seven month old baby, so the baby, Duncan, is new to their summer arrangement. Also, this particular year, Adam has invited his newest boyfriend, Shawn, who is also staying at the house. They all meet at the summer house sometime after lunch. Sarah and Adam spend the afternoon unpacking and napping, while waiting for the others to arrive.
The group fixed a late dinner consisting of lobster and beer, and then later in the evening, they decided that they wanted ice cream from the local ice cream shop. Adam and Sarah go out for the ice cream, and on the way home, Sarah is killed in a car accident.
All of this occurs in Chapter One. The rest of the book is about how Sarah’s mother, Natalie, copes with her daughter’s death. Sarah and Natalie were uncomfortably close, telling each everything (including their sexual exploits) ever since Sarah was a young girl. Understandably, Natalie is devastated by Sarah’s death, and even refuses to allow Sarah’s friends to attend the funeral. After the funeral, Natalie decides to go to the beach house to stay with Sarah’s friends in order to know/learn everything about Sarah’s life.
The rest of the book is about the week that Natalie is there at the beach house and how each of the people there deal with the loss and grief. I just didn’t connect with it. It may have been from the inappropriate, strangling relationship that Sarah and Natalie had. I’m not sure. I just didn’t care much for the story.
“Surrender, Dorothy” was the greeting that every phone call began with between Natalie and Sarah. It was about their shared passion from the movie The Wizard of Oz. I found that rather symbolic, both in terms of their relationship and in Sarah’s death. But certainly an odd, strange way to begin every single phone conversation.
The second book that I read was Blood Memory by Greg Iles, published in 2005. I could not put it down. Great story!!
The first line of the book: “When does murder begin?” That got my attention!
Dr. Catherine (“Cat”) Ferry is a forensic odontologist, which means that she specializes in bite marks. Cat is well-respected in her field, but her private live is a mess. She is alcoholic and has been quite sexually active over the years. She is presently involved with a married police detective, and has learned that she is pregnant. There is a serial killer in New Orleans Natchez
Cat’s father was murdered when she was eight years old at the family home in Natchez Natchez
When Cat arrives at her home, she leaves her bag of forensic chemicals in her room and the housekeeper’s great-granddaughter accidentally spills some of the chemicals on the floor. Two bloody footprints show up on the carpet. She begins to wonder if the footprints are related to her father’s murder decades ago.
Cat begins to have recurring nightmares, and begins to put some pieces of her past together. Meanwhile, the investigations of the murders in New Orleans New Orleans
This is a book that delves into fascinating psychological issues, including disassociation and repressed memories. I loved it. And I couldn’t put it down! I have to admit that it was quite evident to me early on who had killed her father and why, but that did not diminish my enjoyment of the book at all…Great read!
And the third book that I finished is When You Eat at the Refrigerator, Pull Up a Chair by Geneen Roth. As you may know, I read Women Food and God a few months ago (also by Ms. Roth) and loved it. I had read some of her other books years ago, and, obviously, at the time, did not put them into practice! Anyway, When You Eat at the Refrigerator is “50 Ways to Feel Thin, Gorgeous, and Happy (When You Feel Anything But”. It consist of 50 short chapters each devoted to removing obstacles that keep us from realizing who we really are and what our loves and strengths are.
I found this book to be very practical and very thought-provoking. Randomly, some of the examples of the chapters are: Cultivate Curiosity, Act on Your Own Behalf, Carry a Chunk of Chocolate Everywhere, Wear Your Special Occasion Clothes Any Old Day, Lagniappe, When Things Begin To Fall Apart, Let Them…and so many more chapters. You get the idea!
Whether you are focused on losing weight, or on feeling better physically or emotionally, I think that this book has much to offer. Right now I would say that the chapter that has had the biggest impact on me is Be Fully Present for Five Minutes Every Day. The point of that for me was to appreciate what is happening in my life right at the present moment instead of being caught up in what has happened in the past or what will happen in the future. Just enjoy RIGHT NOW!
I found this to be a book of very relevant wisdom for happiness. Ms. Roth is a humorous, wise writer!
So that is what I have read over the past few days. I am still here at the cabin for at leasst another day, perhaps two. What to read, what to read???
